The big news from last weekend was Bryce’s birthday party. He was finally able to have his waterslide! We combined with Ben, whose birthday is actually tomorrow. The boys had 3 friends join them to spend the night at Ben’s house. There is a separate cottage on their property, so they ate out there (chicken with no utensils! Bryce avoided that, as he’s still a vegetarian! but there were other finger foods to keep him happy.) Then the 5 of them slept out there . . who knows how late they stayed up!

The next morning they came to our house, where they got to play on the waterslide for about an hour before their guests began to arrive. There were about 20 boys who came. Bryce loved the cake (Star Wars, of course!) We had BINGO (WAMPA,) a “pinata” (just a plastic bag filled with candy and hung from a tree,) decorated cupcakes, played “Capture the Flag” and then, of course, swimming and the waterslide. We actually had sunshine and power!!!! We had no power on Mon., Tues., Wed. morning and Friday, so I was a little worried about it, but it came through! The party was lots of fun and left Amanda, Gus (Amanda’s husband) and me exhausted.

Last week HIS was host to 5 countries’ basketball teams for an annual tournament called ISSEA (International Schools of South and East Africa.) There were teams from South Africa, Kenya, Tanzania, Ethiopia, and Uganda, as well at Zimbabwe. It was the first time in 9 years it was hosted here. The last time it was Zim’s turn, they chose a different location as there was very little food available and it was a real hardship. The kids and I watched our fill of basketball games. It was very fun.

We are doing fine. I still have no job, but the time when we will know for sure is approaching – probably the beginning to end of April. All of us are starting to realize that our time here is limited and we are all feeling sad about leaving as well as excited to come home. Comments like, “I can’t believe we won’t see _______ in a few months” are becoming common at our house. I really wish all of you could have come to visit – it really is an adventure and a beautiful country with such wonderful animals and places to visit. The people are so warm and friendly and the weather beats anyplace I’ve ever seen!

Hope you are all doing well. We miss you and look forward to seeing you all again.

Mary’s eyes are back to normal, thankfully. That was a long time to have them so irritated! The dog is doing okay, I think, although she doesn’t have her old energy back. I took her for a run yesterday and she only made it a few blocks before she put on the brakes and I had to walk her the rest of the way home. She is old and I think the infection took it out of her. She was poisoned while I was home in August and that took some of it, too, which I don’t think she ever fully recovered. Poor old thing.

On Friday night I attended a school fund raiser; it was very fun. The drive there (fortunately, I wasn’t driving!) was quite an experience. There was another function taking place at the same hotel, that had 1000 people attending; ours had around 400. It was raining and the traffic lights weren’t working (not unusual) but no police there to monitor the traffic. We were in gridlock for about 1 1/2 hours; several others were stuck for between 2 and 3 hours. The road we were stuck on was 2 lanes each way, but worked its way into being 6 lanes going one way and trying to siphon into 2 lanes at the intersection. We actually made it through that, only to find that the traffic was bound up even worse on the other side of the intersection. We finally jumped a curb, did a U-turn and found a back way. There were no accidents causing this, just too many cars and no direction because of the lack of traffic signals!

Once there, the dinner was wonderful (each embassy contributed a dish or so from their country) with an auction, a raffle, and dancing. Another sad (and African) thing was that at the end of the evening, there was no refrigeration available for all the left-over food, so it was thrown away. With all those hungry people outside on the streets it’s too bad there was no way to organize getting it to them.

The rest of the weekend was quiet. Both Mary and Bryce had sleepovers. The MTV Night video for this year was completed – I’ll have to see if I can find a link you can follow to view it. We had our friends the Bushes (also from Oregon) over last night for dinner . . . not much excitement, but relaxing. Next weekend we will finally be celebrating Bryce’s birthday with his party. Because Ben’s birthday is March 10, we are combining the two birthdays into one party. It will begin with a sleepover at Ben’s house on Friday night, then continue with swimming and a water slide at our house on Saturday. A busy week ahead, preparing!

I can’t believe we are down to just over 3 months before we return to Oregon. I have mixed feelings, but overall am ready to come home. I will miss so much here – it’s been an amazing journey. I also am a bit fearful of the pain returning to our house and unpacking everything we have in storage will be. It’s something I have to get through, so we will manage.

Happy March to everyone at home!

Mary’s eye is mostly better today. The swelling is gone, it wasn’t glued shut this morning, and it’s only a tiny bit red. Hooray! Thanks to all of you who sent me home remedies.
Shadow is also doing well. She is eating and drinking and getting more energetic by the day. Good news for the weekend!
Tonight I am going to a fund-raising dinner to raise money for a school pool. It is a formal affair with entertainment – a band and also a mime – so it should be fun. Right now I think I’d prefer to go home and go to bed!
Went to a neighborhood meeting last night to discuss security (who’s paying for the guards, who’s feeding them, etc.) and found out that a lady just down the street from me is receiving $1000/month ZESA bills – she owes $10,000!!!! She makes me feel like I’m in good shape! She also only has power about 1/2 the time. Crazy!
Enjoy your weekend. It’s hard to believe next week is March – how time is moving on.

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We got another antibiotic drop that is being used in conjunction with the antibiotic ointment. Her eye is still red, but less so, and less swollen, too. It was still glued shut this morning, but not as much gunk. I’m hoping this will do the trick . . . we are to go back tomorrow if it doesn’t.

Shadow improved a lot after her shot yesterday, but started throwing up again last night. She is droopy this morning, but not as bad as before . . . in for another shot today.

We just lost our electricity this morning after 3 WHOLE DAYS with power!!!! Four of my neighbors had no power since Sunday, thanks to a blown fuse. ZESA couldn’t get out to fix it until last night (no vehicles) and then it went out this morning. I really feel sorry for them!

It looks like things are taking a turn for the better . . . knock on wood!

Thanks for all the suggestions. I now have more options if this latest round of antibiotics doesn’t do the trick!

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This has been a frustrating week! Mary came down with pink eye on Friday morning. I took her to the doctor, who prescribed an antibiotic eye drop. It had no effect at all, so Saturday evening, the school nurse suggested I give her the outdated antibiotic I brought with me from the States. No effect (it was over a year expired.) Sunday I took her to the Trauma Center (like an emergency room) and another antibiotic was prescribed. The doctor also wrote a prescription for the same medication she had in America. The pharmacist (they call them chemists here) said you can’t get the American medication in Zim, so gave me the other. No effect. I have another appointment for her today with an ophthalmologist, about whom I’ve heard mixed reviews. I will take his advice with a grain of salt and get yet another opinion if his is too extreme. I can’t believe something as simple as pink eye has had her out of school for 3 days now, very uncomfortable, with swollen, red and discharging eyes and blurry vision!
Then, to complicate things, our dog is sick. She’s been throwing up everywhere and is very lethargic. I took her to the vet and they found she has a temperature, swollen lymph nodes and a tight tummy. They gave her a shot and said to come back for another tomorrow. I hope that clears her up. Also, she has these flies in her ear (they lay their eggs in the skin and eat away at it) so I bought some medication for that. Enough doctors already!!!!
The good news – this is the 3rd day in a row that we have had power. After having that many days with power all day over the past 2 weeks, I feel almost nervous about having it. Our next door neighbors, and friends, aren’t so lucky. We hear their generator going day and night while we wallow in our electricity. This I won’t miss about Africa!
I’ll let everyone know how Mary’s eye is coming when I have something more to report. In the meantime, I do appreciate your prayers for her!! Thank you!

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We just enjoyed a fabulous long weekend. It was well needed – the break did us all good. We are now on full bore until Easter!

Imiri was beautiful and just what the doctor ordered! It’s a small game lodge about 1 ½ hours outside Harare. They set us up with the kids in their own little cabin (3 boys and 2 girls – the girls had their own room with a bathroom) and then the 3 big girls (moms) had our own cabin as well. That was great for all of us! We had a nice swimming pool, great trees to climb and dinner, breakfast and lunch, along with multiple teas, were included. Also, there were 2 game drives and sundowners one evening. All for $100 per adult and $60 per child! People here think it’s crazy, but that’s because everything used to be so cheap. We really relaxed there! The kids played – we read, visited, ate pomegranates we picked form trees, watched the kids . . . Did I mention that the lodges were surrounded by game, so we saw elephants, Cape buffalo, etc. from our porch?

They have had serious poaching problems there, so they corral the rhinos and elephants at night. We were able to pet them because they were behind a fence. We also were able to feed them from our jeep the next day. The rhinos have the funniest mouths! I’ll try to get pictures of them on the blog. They never go anywhere without their 24/7 guard, who carries a machine gun. A little less than 2 years ago, poachers killed 5 rhinos, including babies. So sad.

There is also an elephant there that was imported at age 6 months 35 years ago, along with one more little elephant. The second ellie died, so they gave the surviving one to Cape buffalo to raise. She is still with them and thinks she’s a buffalo! She is their leader, and has killed 17 male buffalos over the years when they challenged her matriarchy. I have some great pictures of them, too!

We also saw some wonderful kudu, eland, sable, gemsbok and impala, along with giraffe, zebra and warthog. There were also lions and hyenas, but they were penned. The park is not large enough to support predators. It was beautiful. I came away feeling very relaxed . . . and wishing we’d chosen to stay another night!

We’ve had a lousy week for power. We were out last Monday for 16 hours, only out for 1 ½ on Tuesday, no power for 18 hours on Wednesday, and 16 on Thursday. We left Friday, came back to power on Saturday, but then it was out for about 8 hours on Sunday and from 5 am until midnight yesterday! It’s getting a bit old . . . Happily, there was power when we left this morning. The school is spending a fortune on petrol for the generator here!

The kids are well, I am well – I hope you are all well, too.

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Mary is going to a middle school dance on Thursday night, followed by a sleepover.

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Hello Everybody! I hope no one was worried about us since I didn’t post anything last week. Our internet and e-mail went down last Monday and it is all just restored today. The server needed to be rebuilt (whatever that means!) and the provider also had problems. I don’t know what all that entails; I’m just glad to be reconnected to the world. I only had a very few e-mails from last week, so some may have been lost. If you wrote to me and I don’t get back to you, that’s probably what happened.
I was very excited to hear that the tax measures passed in Oregon. Thanks to everyone who voted there! I have no guarantee that I will have a job even so, since budgets are still tight, but my chances are much improved over what they would have been had the measures failed. I won’t know for sure for some time yet. I have resigned my position here in the meantime. The Director needs to recruit for any openings for next year, so I had to make a commitment by last week. He has agreed to hire me back if necessary – and if he still has openings – if nothing works out at home. If that is the case, we will still be doing well. There are so many things that we truly love here, not the least of which is the wonderful friends we’ve made here. We will go where God leads us.
Mary is busy, busy, busy! She not only has her homework load and violin, but she just got a part in the middle school play! She will be rehearsing 2 – 3 times per week until the end of April. It’s exciting but a big commitment. I’m proud of her!
Bryce has one week left in his cast, which has turned a disgusting gray color. He hasn’t slowed down a bit with this arm – mostly all it’s done is keep him dry. Mostly.
I went to Chombo last weekend – January 24. It was wonderful to see the corn growing, and so much more of it than last year! I was also able to see and try out the pump on the well and had a nice drink of the water from it. Delicious! They have cleared a huge plot of land near the pump that has been fallow forever and are now growing tomato plants there along with peanuts and beans. It’s so exciting to see their new prosperity! The difference between this year and last – when they were racing home with the food bags to eat – is heart warming. My plan for the rest of this year is to take food out once a month until harvest time, rent them a bull , provide them with some chicken wire so they can build a coop and buy a few fruit trees. Then it’s up to them. My friends Al and Cindy, who deliver the food with me and have been wonderful about sourcing materials, etc., will be here next year for sure and will help out with seed and fertilizer if needed in the spring (fall in the US.) I feel very optimistic about their future independence! Thanks for all your help with this project! Jeff has to be smiling about this!

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Hey, every body! This is Mary Cumpston blogging!
So I got season three of my favorite show iCarly while in Demark. And speaking of Denmark- how cool is that place? Now I am going to tell you all the events that took place in the Scandinavian island of snow called ‘Denmark.’ Denmark was discovered in… I have no idea, but any way when we first got there, they lost our luggage! So dumb! I fell asleep on the hard airport floor while facing a nauseating stomach ache. When I woke up, the airport people had just announced that our luggage would arrive “eventually.’ And it’d better because my mom doesn’t want to pay for a lawyer but I would love to sue the idiots at that airport! More importantly, I’d like to push them down and jump up and down on their faces and then use a fork to finish them off! Okay, I’m kidding about the forks, but I am really mad!
Anyway, we met our friends, Alfred and Karl, at the front gate right outside the snow, and you won’t believe what I saw then…a Burger King! It’s a big deal for someone like me, living in Africa, cut off from fast food. Everyone’s idea of fast food in Zim is mealy meal with butter! So when we got to Alfred and Karl’s, we went online, then fell asleep. We had plenty of time (3 days) to settle into their house which was rather small but very cozy. We visited the mall where I got a mango smoothie and a stuffed bear named ‘Bomsha’ which is Danish for pimple. I thought it was Danish for teddy bear, because it’s the same word but with a different accent. Whatever.
On Christmas Eve, we still didn’t have a tree but we did have one suitcase – mine. But that suitcase did not have the Christmas stuff we needed, like our favorite Christmas books and some of the presents and also some other stuff very important to my Christmas. On Christmas Eve, we had a very Danish Christmas. We did all their traditions at their relative’s house. Their relatives have a sweet nine year old daughter named Kya. She didn’t speak much English, but she’s still so sweet! In our Danish Christmas, we first had some rice porridge and dug through it for an almond which was only in some of our bowls. The ones with almonds got prizes. I won these glitter stickers which I used to make heart designs on my iPod touch (which I got from Santa.) We also did the dancing around the Christmas tree tradition and stuff like that, but we didn’t get the right suitcase by Christmas Eve and my Christmas was spoiled. Right before bed, me and Bryce got into a fight then I got really upset that we didn’t have the suitcase so I just cried myself to sleep. I enjoyed the activities but it just wasn’t Christmas. And this was the first ever Christmas that I woke up and didn’t want to get out of bed! I was really happy about the iPod but I was disappointed that we didn’t even have a tree! We had to put the presents under a paper tree that I drew. I got some great presents – a Make Up Models book, a stuffed dog named Pan – so cute, a Littlest Pet Shop Antarctica thing, and the iCarly DS game! I also got some cute clothes- blue tights from Justice, a plain blue ruffled skirt, and a lime green T shirt with little diamonds and may I say that Selena Gomez wore that same shirt in her music video for the song ‘Magic.’ Really! I got some great stuff for Christmas, just not a Christmassy Christmas. However, I got to eat McDonalds four times and go ice skating in Denmark.
How was your Christmas? I’m going to go to the Internet Café now to load the newest episodes of iCarly that I downloaded. Please watch iCarly on Nickelodeon cuz it rocks!
Bye from Mary!

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We have completed our first week back at school. It feels like it’s been a long one!
The weather has been beautiful! It’s hard to imagine we were in the cold and snow just over a week ago. It certainly is summer here.
Our trip was emotionally relatively easy; coming back to Africa was unexpectedly difficult! I felt Jeff’s absence everywhere I turned. Each sound and smell reminded me of him. Coming back to school I felt the vacuum he left behind. It feels like starting all over again on the grieving continuum.
On another note, Bryce broke his arm 2 days ago. He jumped out of a tree over the weekend and landed on it. It hurt, but there was no swelling, discoloration and he could move his fingers, wrist, elbow, etc. We watched it and it was feeling better each day. Then, Wednesday, he turned around funny and fell out of his chair at school . . . landed on the same wrist and it broke! Poor guy!
We had a truly African experience with it. The first place I took him was the Trauma Center, which was unable to help as there was no power. Ha! We then went on to the same hospital that Jeff went to after he broke his collar bone. It took about 3 hours, but they finally x-rayed him and put him in a plaster cast from his armpit to his fingers! They told us it would need to stay on for 6 weeks. The next day, yesterday, we went to the orthopedic surgeon who treated Jeff. He’s wonderful!!!! He explained Bryce’s break (a greenstick break) and removed the plaster cast. He replaced it with a fiberglass one from the elbow down. It needs to stay on for only 3 ½ weeks. Quite an improvement. Because of this, we have postponed Bryce’s birthday party until the cast comes off. (It was to be next Saturday; a swimming and water slide party. Not good for broken bones!)
Mary is doing well. She brought home a good report card for 1st semester, so we will have to celebrate. She has been working hard! She’s having some friends over tonight for a sleepover and iCarly party.
We’ve all been spoiled by the nice treats people have sent to us. We are eating some “exotic“ American treats (like Pop Tarts and spice packets,) enjoying American pop culture magazines (like Twist,) and watching some non-pirated DVDs (good quality!!!) Thank you all!!!

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